9 Business Networking Tips from a CEO | A Complete Guide

Updated on: Jun 14, 2024

In both business and life, it’s about who you know, and not only what you know. So, learning how to network well is a key skill for those wanting to get ahead in life. Trust me, I know this quite well! I used to be a nerd when I was a teenager, but now I have my own Netflix show!

Most people are afraid of networking because they’re either shy or don’t know how to network. But that’s why it’s important to understand what networking is really about (it’s not about being fake), learn some networking techniques and ultimately practice your networking skills until you perfect them.

Here’s your no-fluff, straight-to-the-point guide on becoming a networking pro, tailored for both the extroverted go-getters and the wallflowers of the business world.

 
 
 

9 Key Tips for Networking Naturally

Effective networking is an acquired skill, not an innate talent. While some individuals may possess stronger social skills, making networking seem effortless, the reality is that anyone can become proficient with practice. Here are 9 key tips to help you network more naturally and effectively

1. Attend Business Networking Events

If you’re part of a company, don’t even think about skipping out on the events they throw, like those laid-back brunch meetings or the more chill corporate retreats. Trust me, it’s the perfect setup to get tight with your work buddies in a way that just doesn’t happen in the office. It’s about finding those shared vibes that go way beyond the daily grind.

And hey, don’t stop there. Keep an eye out for networking gigs specifically tied to what you’re passionate about or what you’re gunning to learn more of in your field. It’s like hitting two birds with one stone – you get to hang out with people who get it, and you stay on top of what’s shaking up your industry. It’s going to pay off big time, setting you up for some solid moves in your career.

 

2. Come Prepared

Think about it this way: what’s your mission? Maybe it’s to connect with a certain guru in your field, or maybe it’s to walk away with three new contacts who genuinely get the challenges you’re facing. Whatever it is, having those goals in your mind is crucial.

Then, arm yourself with some killer questions. Not just the “So, what do you do?” kind, but the ones that really open up a conversation and show you’ve done your homework.
And speaking of homework, do some research on who’s going to be there. If there’s someone specific you’re dying to chat with, know a bit about what they’re into. It’s like having a secret weapon up your sleeve.

So yeah, prep is everything. It turns a shot-in-the-dark kind of event into a targeted mission where you’re in control. Trust me, it makes all the difference.

 

3. Leverage LinkedIn

With its bazillion members, it’s the ultimate playground for professional networking. The beauty of LinkedIn is that it lets you keep your networking game strong without having to wait for some conference or mixer.

Use your profile to stay active in your field – follow the big shots, jump into conversations, share your two cents, and build those online connections. It’s all about making your presence known and getting your ideas out there. Plus, having a solid online presence can be a total game-changer when you finally meet people in person. It takes the edge off the initial meet-up because, hey, they already know who you are. Networking without the awkwardness? Yes, please!

4. Listen, Listen, Listen!

You know what’s often overlooked but incredibly crucial? Listening. Yeah, that’s right. While some folks might dive into networking thinking it’s their personal show-and-tell time, the real magic happens when you flip the script and focus on the person in front of you.

See, networking isn’t just about shouting your achievements from the rooftops. It’s about building genuine connections. And how do you do that? By lending an ear, diving into what others have to say, asking them questions, and actually caring about their responses. When you show that level of interest in someone else’s journey, you’re not just another contact in their list – you become the person they look forward to catching up with.

So, the next time you’re out there trying to make those professional connections, remember: Listen, listen, listen! It’s the secret ingredient to becoming that person everyone wants to know, and honestly, it’s a game-changer for networking.

5. Give Value

What if, instead of always asking for favors, you focus on what you can offer? That’s where the real networking magic happens.

When you approach networking with the mindset of giving rather than taking, you change the game. It’s not about keeping score; it’s about building genuine relationships. By sharing your knowledge, resources, or even just lending an ear, you position yourself as someone who’s not only trustworthy but also invaluable.

So, the next time you’re gearing up to network, ask yourself, “How can I help?” rather than “What can I get?” This shift in perspective can turn you into the go-to person in your field, someone people not only respect but genuinely want to connect with. Being generous with your time and expertise pays off in ways you can’t even imagine.

6. Be Genuine

Let’s face it, nobody likes feeling like they’re just another rung on someone’s ladder to success. When you’re networking, ditch the act. Trying to play the room can not only come across as insincere, but it also just feels… empty.

Remember, at the heart of it all, business is about people. It’s those genuine connections that really pave the way to success, not just a stack of business cards collected from folks you barely remember. Being authentic, showing your true self – that’s the key.

So, when you’re out there, be real! Talk about what lights you up, ask about what drives others, and let the conversation flow from there. Success in business, much like in life, comes from those real, human connections. And believe me, being genuine is what makes those connections last.

7. Seek Out Mentorship

Think about it – finding someone you really look up to, someone who’s been where you want to go, and making them your mentor or coach. It’s like having a GPS for your career, guiding you through the shortcuts and steering you clear of the potholes.

These mentors, they’re often the big fish in the pond, right? They’ve been around, they know people, and they’ve got this web of connections. And the cool part? They can bring you into their circle, introduce you to folks you’d probably never meet otherwise. It’s not just about the introductions, though. It’s about learning from their experiences, getting that insider wisdom that you can’t find in any book or course.
So, if you’re serious about making moves in your career, start looking for a mentor.

 

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8. Follow Up

You know when you meet someone super interesting at an event or you snag a few new contacts? That’s just the beginning. The real deal is in following up. 

So, here’s what you do: Add them on LinkedIn, but don’t stop there. Shoot over a message that shows you were actually paying attention. Maybe reference something specific you talked about or share a piece of content related to your conversation. It’s like giving a little nudge that says, “Hey, remember me? I’m keen on keeping this conversation alive.

Trust me, taking that extra step not only shows you’re serious but also sets the stage for a relationship that could lead to all sorts of opportunities down the line. Plus, it’s a solid move for your reputation. People notice when you make the effort to reach out and connect on a human level.

9. Develop a Script

Now, before you roll your eyes, hear me out. Scripts aren’t about turning you into a robot. Nope, when you craft them smartly, they’re actually your secret weapon for nailing networking conversations.

Here’s the deal: the best scripts are the ones that don’t sound like scripts at all. They’re authentic, they’re you, but on your best day. The trick is to craft a script that really captures your voice and your message, then practice it till it feels as natural as saying “hello.”

I’ve got some killer scripts in my How to Build a Network: Tips to Make Connections (+ Scripts) article that are designed to do just that – help you network without the awkwardness. These aren’t your average, run-of-the-mill scripts; they’re carefully tailored to help you communicate effectively, all while being 100% authentically you.

So, let’s rethink scripts, shall we? Instead of shying away from them, let’s use them to our advantage. With the right script in hand and a bit of practice, you’ll be networking like a pro, making genuine connections left and right.

Build Meaningful Professional Connections

You know, business networking gets a bad rap sometimes. People think it’s all about schmoozing or, worse, a total chore. But here’s the thing – it’s really about making connections, kind of like how you make friends. Sure, making friends and building business connections aren’t exactly the same but both can be super rewarding when you dive in with the right attitude.

So, what’s the secret sauce? Simply put, you’ve gotta put yourself out there. It’s about genuinely engaging with people, lending an ear, jumping into discussions, offering a hand when you can, and really nurturing those connections you form. Do this, and trust me, the benefits will come knocking on your door.

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