The best way to save money for kids depends on your goals, timeline, and family situation. You have multiple proven options, ranging from tax-advantaged college savings plans to retirement accounts for teenagers. Most successful families use a combination of strategies rather than relying on a single approach.
Here are your best options, ranked by their potential impact on your child's financial future:
A 529 plan is a tax-advantaged savings account specifically designed for education expenses, offered by states and educational institutions.
Tax-free growth when used for education expenses means your $50,000 contributions could become $150,000 without paying a penny in taxes. Most states give you tax deductions for contributions, so you save money on this year's taxes while building your child's future.
You can use 529 money for college, trade school, K-12 private school tuition, student loan payments, and even laptops for school. If your kid doesn't attend college, transfer the money to another family member or roll up to $35,000 into a Roth IRA penalty-free.
Start with $100 monthly and increase by $25 every six months until you hit your target. This gradual approach lets you build the habit without shocking your budget, while maximizing the compound growth that makes 529 plans so powerful.
Check out my 8 Essential Strategies for Mastering Your Family Finances guide for more strategies for managing money with kids and creating a complete family financial plan.
A Roth IRA for children works exactly like an adult version—you pay taxes on money going in, but all growth and withdrawals in retirement are tax-free. The difference is that kids who start this early gain decades of additional compound growth that adults can never match.
If your teenager earns any income from babysitting, lawn care, or part-time jobs, they can contribute to a Roth IRA. The income must be documented, but it doesn't need to be from a traditional W-2 job.
A 16-year-old who saves $2,000 annually for just 3 years will have over $400,000 by retirement without contributing another dollar. Compare that to someone who waits until age 26 to start saving. They'd need to contribute more than $2,000 yearly for the next 40 years just to catch up.
That 10-year head start makes a massive difference, even with a small amount saved. Roth IRA money grows tax-free forever, and your child can withdraw contributions penalty-free for college or a first home purchase.
Match your teenager's earnings dollar-for-dollar to motivate them and double their retirement savings immediately. This approach teaches them that saving pays off while building wealth they'll appreciate decades later.
High-yield savings accounts are regular savings accounts offered by online banks that pay significantly higher interest rates than traditional ones.
Every child needs an emergency fund of $2,000-5,000 for car repairs, medical bills, and unexpected expenses in early adulthood. High-yield savings accounts pay 4-5% interest compared to 0.01% at big banks, earning your child hundreds more annually.
Keep emergency money separate from college funds so your child doesn't raid their education savings for a spring break trip. Use online banks like Ally or Marcus for better rates than traditional banks, while maintaining FDIC protection up to $250,000.
UTMA (Uniform Transfers to Minors Act) and UGMA (Uniform Gifts to Minors Act) accounts let adults invest money on behalf of children who can't open investment accounts themselves.
These accounts let you invest in stocks, bonds, and mutual funds for potentially higher returns than savings accounts. You can also invest in broad market index funds for steady growth without picking individual stocks or timing the market.
The first $1,350 in annual investment gains is tax-free, and the next $1,350 is taxed at your child's lower tax rate. Money becomes your child's property at age 18-25, giving them complete control over investments worth potentially hundreds of thousands.
Perfect for parents who want aggressive growth and can handle market volatility over 10-20 years.
Joint savings accounts let you and your child access the money while you supervise their financial decisions. This is perfect for teaching kids how banking works, setting savings goals, and building good money habits from an early age.
The FDIC insures up to $250,000, so your child's money is completely safe while they learn. Start by building the savings habit with small amounts from allowances and gift money.
CDs are savings accounts in which you agree to leave your money untouched for a specific time period in exchange for higher interest rates. They're perfect when you know exactly when you'll need money, like private school tuition starting in two years.
Choose CD terms that match your timeline: 6 months for summer camp, 2 years for high school tuition, 5 years for college. Early withdrawal penalties make this a forced savings plan that prevents you from spending your child's money on other things.
Trusts are legal arrangements where a third party holds and manages assets on behalf of your children, with specific rules about when and how money can be accessed.
Education trusts ensure money is only used for school expenses, while special needs trusts provide for children with disabilities. Setting up trusts costs $1,000-5,000+, depending on complexity, so they only make sense for larger amounts.
Trusts are perfect for grandparents who want to leave substantial gifts while controlling spending.
Most parents wait until their child turns 10 to start saving seriously, thinking they'll make up for lost time with bigger contributions later. This costs them potentially over $300,000 in compound growth compared to starting at birth.
Here's the math that proves why this strategy fails: a parent saving $200 monthly from birth to age 18 ends up with $86,000. Wait until age 10 and you'll only have $28,000 for the same monthly amount over 8 years instead of 18.
When you prioritize saving for your children early, you give them something more valuable than money. Your child won't graduate college carrying the crushing weight of $37,000 in student loan debt like the average graduate today. Instead of spending their twenties paying off educational loans with interest, they can focus on building their careers and lives.
College funds create options that debt eliminates. Kids with education savings can take unpaid internships at dream companies instead of working retail jobs to cover rent and loan payments. They can study abroad for a semester in Italy or spend a summer volunteering without worrying about the cost.
Your savings strategy should evolve as your child grows and your income changes. Here are some ideas on how to handle it through the years:
These early years are your golden window for building wealth. Start by contributing $100-200 monthly to a 529 plan to establish the habit and take advantage of maximum compound growth. Even if $200 feels like a stretch, start with $50 and increase gradually.
Open a high-yield savings account with an initial deposit of $500-1,000 for short-term emergencies and to teach basic money concepts as your child grows.
Your earning power typically increases during these years, making it the perfect time to boost your child's savings. Increase 529 contributions to $200-400 monthly if your income has grown since your child was born. Many parents get raises or promotions during this period, but let lifestyle inflation eat up the extra income instead of securing their child's future.
Add a custodial brokerage account with $100-200 monthly for aggressive growth beyond education expenses. This creates wealth your child can access for opportunities like starting a business, buying a home, or taking career risks that educated savings enable.
Start teaching your child about money using a basic savings account where they can deposit allowance and gift money.
These final years before college require a strategic shift toward maximum savings. Boost 529 contributions to $500-800 monthly as college approaches, and you have fewer years for compound growth to work its magic. This might feel aggressive, but remember that every dollar saved now prevents a dollar of student loan debt later.
If your teenager earns income from jobs or side hustles, help them contribute $500-2,000 annually to a Roth IRA with your matching contributions. This teaches them about retirement savings while you're still there to guide them, and the early start creates massive wealth over their lifetime.
Start transitioning some investments to more conservative options as college expenses become imminent.
The optimal savings strategy for your children depends entirely on your current income level, with different account types and contribution amounts recommended for each situation.
Higher incomes create unique opportunities to build serious wealth for your children across various vehicles:
The key advantage of higher income is the ability to diversify across multiple savings vehicles simultaneously. This creates redundancy and options for your children.
Your strategy requires carefully balancing today's expenses with tomorrow's opportunities without sacrificing your current quality of life:
This balanced approach ensures you build your child's future without compromising your family's present needs.
Focus on building sustainable habits and creating momentum rather than achieving perfect optimization:
Remember that every financial journey starts with a single step. Small, consistent actions build wealth and confidence over time, creating a foundation you can expand as your income grows.
Saving for your children's future makes sense in most situations, but there are four specific scenarios where it can destroy your family's finances instead of securing them.
Putting money into savings accounts earning 4% while paying 20% interest on credit cards makes zero mathematical sense. No investment strategy will reliably beat the guaranteed "return" of paying off high-interest debt first. Focus on eliminating credit card balances, then redirect those monthly payments toward your children's savings accounts.
The one critical exception: maintain a small emergency fund of $1,000 to avoid creating more debt when unexpected expenses inevitably hit your family. Without this buffer, a car repair or medical bill forces you deeper into the debt cycle you're trying to escape.
If you're choosing between groceries and college savings, your priority should be increasing your income rather than optimizing savings rates for your kids. Your time and energy are better spent developing marketable skills or finding higher-paying work than restricting your family's current standard of living for uncertain future benefits.
Even in tight financial situations, consider saving just $25 monthly to build the habit and create psychological momentum for when your financial situation improves.
Your children don't benefit if you're financially stressed, living paycheck to paycheck, or lacking an emergency fund. This creates a house of cards that collapses when unexpected expenses hit, potentially forcing you to raid their college funds during emergencies.
Secure your 401k company match first because it guarantees 100% returns you can't get anywhere else in the investment world. Build an emergency fund covering 3-6 months of family expenses before focusing on long-term wealth building for children.
Money disagreements destroy marriages, mainly when one parent saves aggressively for children while the other feels deprived of current enjoyment or necessities.
Amy and Gaby, a couple from my podcast, perfectly illustrate how college savings disagreements can tear relationships apart. They're in their mid-30s, have a household income of $115,000 in Miami, and have two young children.
Amy wants to save aggressively for their kids' college education because her parents paid for hers, while Gaby thinks the kids should figure it out themselves since he struggled with student loans.
Ramit: What is your position when it comes to paying for the kid’s education?
Amy: [00:02:46] We pay for it. They’re ours, they’re our responsibility. We should be able to do what we can. For me, for my school, it was always known that I was going to college. That was always a given. And I think my parents said to me at one point, we’ll pay for your four year. Anything after four years is on you. So I would like to be able to do that as well for our children. Ramit Sethi: [00:03:12] Okay. Got it. Gaby, what is your understanding of paying for kids’ education? Gaby: [00:03:20] I went to a very expensive school. So to me, it’s like it was a massive burden because I essentially paid for my own school through student loans. And then it was a massive burden on me. I can’t imagine having to pay for like two of my kids, like, “Oh no, man,” I already went through it myself and I feel I have to live through it two more times with them. It seems pretty rough on me. I want to enjoy now. And then let them, they can figure it out, I think maybe. |
These opposing views create daily tension in their relationship because they have never aligned on their values before making major financial decisions. Amy feels alone, making all the money choices while Gaby remains disconnected from their finances entirely. This dynamic destroys marriages when one partner sacrifices current happiness for future goals that the other partner doesn't share, creating resentment that builds over the years.
Building wealth for your children without teaching them money skills creates a dangerous combination: large amounts of money in the hands of financially illiterate adults.
Start with lessons that match your child's developmental stage and gradually increase complexity.
Let them make small mistakes with their cash so they learn the consequences before the stakes increase. A $20 impulse purchase teaches better lessons than a lecture about financial responsibility.
Transform money management conversations from sources of anxiety into shared family values. Celebrate savings milestones with special family dinners instead of just tracking numbers. Share stories about your mistakes so they understand that money management is a lifelong learning process.
Include kids in age-appropriate family financial discussions so money isn't a mysterious topic. Show them how your family's conscious spending plan includes saving for their future alongside current enjoyment.
Want to create a money system that works for your entire family? Check out my Conscious Spending Plan to see how successful families balance it.