“Follow Your Passion” is bad advice. Do this instead…
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Monish Subherwal
Hi Raman, I am throwing an event in November called The Empowerment Conference: "How to Escape the Rat Race and Live Your Passion!" with NetIP (Network of Indian Professionals in Los Angeles). You'd be an ideal speaker for the event, but unfortunately we dont have a budget for speakers. But its the right audience for you (or at least for this topic). Target is 100+ people: www.TheEmpowermentSchool.com/conference2012 I agree its important to focus on lifestyle first. I'd rather people not have a dream job...and rather escape the 9 to 5 to create a dream business from their passion (and learn skills to do so along the way or leverage whatever skills they have along the way). If that requires them to work their 9 to 5 and learn those skills after work, so be it. But sounds your plan is to learn relevant skills (for your passion) DURING your 9 to 5 (or pick a flexible job that gives you more time to pick up skills). Which makes sense. Sounds like your plan is digestable to those who have limited time (99% of people right?). Find a lifestyle and job that allows you to cultivate skills towards your values/passion. Then go from there. Good approach! Anyway, feel free to reach out to me if you're interested in speaking. Keep up the good work.
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Laurie
Didn't you kind of miss the point of this article with your suggested title?
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Adam Glinglin
Talk about fail whale.
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Paul
Ramen, I am hosting dinner tonight. Noodle dishes. RSVP?
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David
glorious
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Cory
Hilarious...
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Jessica
"Our society has a love affair with this reductionist notion that we all have One True Calling, twined in our DNA, waiting to be discovered. Questioning this premise, as demonstrated by the reaction to my CNN piece, is interpreted as a sign that you’re giving up altogether on the goal of enjoying life: follow your passion or end up on an assembly line!" This is formatted as part of the second quoted comment, but I think it's intended to be part of the main body of the article.
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Joe Cassandra
Getting feedback is one of the most under-rated "skills" out there. If you're not willing to get ripped apart to become better because of your ego, you've already failed (not to mention people think your a douche!) cheers Ramit
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Dave
I'm glad to see that someone else thinks the follow your passion is nonsense too. I've had many different passions over my life, and over time they fade. Which is inherently not a problem. I used to love tinkering w/ computers, which lead to a side gig of computer repair. But I was never going to "get rich" doing that. And I don't get as much passion from that any more. So what happens then, if you follow your passion. Be stuck in a job doing that until I decided to chase something else? And then it's often starting over at the beginning at the proverbial bottom of the food chain.
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Cal Newport
You hit the nail on your head about the dangers of starting over again and again. I tell a story in my book of a marketing executive who follows her "passion" into a yoga certification course. The problem, of course, is that 40 hours of training puts you at the bottom of the food chain. Within a year, she was on food stamps. What we call "passion" is often just an "interest" or "optimistic fairy tale." Compelling, engaging, long-lasting careers requires way more than a simple match to something that happens to catch your attention that year!
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Lisa M.
Passion and interest are definitely not the same thing. I can speak from my personal experience that passion does not fade over time.
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R.C.
I agree in principle with Ramit's points, but I question that a large number of people think to themselves "I need to go follow my passion!", and use that as their driving force for choosing careers. I know a few people who are "all about being passionate", but it's certainly in the minority. I think most people don't consider their careers in that way, and instead try to make decisions weighing various factors, including passion, skill, stability, etc. Perhaps the best iteration of this discussion would be one that analyzed the extent to what most people use "passion" when making career decisions and showing a way that it can be used optimally, and in congruence with other factors. I think that would appeal to a more "normal" audience, rather than serving to debunk the claims of the few on the fringes who would truly believe that passion is the end-all, be-all of career goals.
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Cal Newport
The damage of "follow your passion" is more insidious. Most people don't actually apply this advice. But it does nibble at the edge of their attention, causing them to imagine that what they're doing for a living is sub-standard, and that there is a true calling waiting out there for them discover. This is the problem. It causes unhappiness and anxiety. It also distracts them from the long but fulfilling work of transforming their current job into something they love.
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Gabs
Great article, Ramit, and very timely for me, too! My son is in his first year of college but feels he should be doing something else. As a father I'm inclined to follow conventional wisdom (which appears is not) and advise him to "follow his passion". After reading this article it dawned to me how I came about my own transformation from being an employee to currently an entrepreneur, and realized just how wrong and unfair that advise would have been for him. Thanks for the heads up, it's nice that that you take the time and effort to give us a slap in the head once in a while for us to make sense (and that, btw, is a compliment!)
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Cory Huff
I saw Cal give this speech at the World Domination Summit this year in Portland. It was one of the least popular speeches (at least among my group of friends), probably because it was perceived as a downer among all of the speeches about being authentic and 'daring greatly.' I loved WDS, but I thought Cal's speech was needed to bring all the ra-ra back down to earth. If you want to make an impact, you have to become good at something....which leads to becoming good at something else...and so on.
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Cal Newport
The most common thing people said to me at WDS was, "I liked the talk, but no one else will." The cult of passion is like a strong-armed mafioso: lot's people question it, but are afraid to speak up.
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Crystal
This reminds me of an article I recently read about the realities of YouTube stars and actors/artists in general: "Get rich or die vlogging: The sad economics of Internet fame" (Link: http://goo.gl/H8zSgE) --- "Not a hint of this psychic stress has ended up on my channel. There’s a huge amount of emotional labor inherent in being an online personality—I have to seem carefree and flawless and always surrounded by friends. I can get “real,” but I can’t bum anyone out. A picture of me out to brunch in Los Feliz will get more likes than a video of me searching for quarters in my car. Authenticity is valued, but in small doses: YouTubers are allowed to have struggled in the past tense, because overcoming makes us brave and relatable. But we can’t be struggling now or we’re labeled “whiners.”" It seems like human nature to prefer not dealing with discomfort and reality. It just doesn't produce or fulfill the romanticized inspiration or elated fantasy planted in our minds. It's way harder to face cold reality. Since our bodies naturally like to take the easiest path possible, we'd rather ignore discomfort and disappointment right now than to endure the pain of digging through it gunk, even if it's for the better in the long run.
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W at Off-Road Finance
Good advice - if you target the lifestyle rather than the job, then your plan has some hope of being realistic. All the people I know who followed passions in low paying fields like fine art work at jobs outside their passion and live with their parents. And I seriously doubt they're happy about it. Develop several rare and valuable skills, and you'll always be in demand.
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Raul Felix
Ramit, Get rid of the Share, Tweet, E-Mail links on the left sidebar. It seriously blocks me from being able to read the article. I can read it a small section at a time. And it doesn't go away automatically. If you have to put it, but it on the right side.
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Jane
Great post! Will definitely check out Cal's book.
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Nate Nead
Love the idea of developing skills as a way to build passion. Perfect description and I completely agree. Most have it backwards.
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Michel Dion
One of the best I have read for a long time!!!!!!
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Patrick
Ingenious, so simple and obvious, hopefully one day it will be the dominant method and vague phrases like "follow your passion" can be put to bed once and for all.
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Holly Wolf
I agree loving what you do is important. But get a job and then start to figure out what you want to do. I can give you a list of people who are unemployed waiting for their dream job, the right job, something that inspires them, some place where they can make a difference. Get a job--and then it maybe easier to figure it out. At least then you'l lbe able to identify what you don't want. Most successful people will tell tales of jobs they had that they hated and they'll be happy to share what they LEARNED from those experiences as well.
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Martin
I loved this line: "Most people who claim they want to be excellent end up instead replying to e-mails and reading online marketing blogs." It's a humbling reminder that reading marketing blogs, doesn't make you a great marketer. Honing your craft does.
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elizabeth
great post. i think one reason people like "follow your passion" is that it seems easy. what you've laid out here takes thought, discipline, and hard work.
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Agota
I agree that the "follow your passion" thing misleads a lot of people. I will share three things that I noticed from my personal observations and my personal experience with it so far. 1. People often expect that they need to find that ONE true passion, turn it into a job or a business, and stick to that career path for the rest of their lives. That's a lot of pressure, so inevitably this leads to analysis paralysis and a chronic unhappiness. I think it's much wiser to accept that our interests are passing, but pursuing those passing interests is much better than to try to determine your passion in advance, because pursuing your current interests will help you develop valuable skills which you might use later on in life when you are doing something else. I'm currently a freelance writer who writes mainly about online marketing. I read related blogs and business books for fun, attend webinars, and keep an eye of what's happening in the industry. I guess that qualifies me as "passionate" about it. However, I feel that my interest, which lasted for 4 years or so, is beginning to fade. I'm starting to feel more and more attracted to science. I know that I'm going to stop writing about online marketing in a year or two and move to other things that interest me more. That's perfectly fine. On top of that, I know that the skills I acquired during my online marketing phase will help in my new path. In case I'd actually go somewhere in science, I will be able to use online marketing knowledge to draw some attention to my work, and in case I write a book, I will make sure to market the shit out of that book. Why get attached to some static career vision when allowing your interests to come and go and follow them as they do will help you to develop unique strengths that will lead to a unique career path? I loved this article, the story of mathematicians turned into geneticists Eric Lander, which shows how by developing skills and following their interests people can create great careers: http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/03/science/broad-institute-director-finds-power-in-numbers.html?_r=0 2. People often think that you will find your passion while sitting on the couch watching TV. I think a much more productive way to find something you want to do for a living is to allow yourself to freely explore your interests instead of trying to find your passion by thinking what it could be. I didn't think about online marketing, I somehow read one business book, another, then saw all the possibilities that internet provides, started reading about that topic, now I'm starting to read more about copywriting and advertising psychology, etc. I just read stuff that seemed interesting to me, then I saw an opportunity to earn money writing about it (I was always good at writing), so I just jumped on that opportunity. Now, I feel an interest in science, and I'm not gonna try to to determine my career, I'm just reading stuff that seems interesting to me, and I'm going to study either psychology or neuroscience, which interests me at the moment (obviously, that's a very strong interest, since getting a degree is a big commitment). Why try to determine your life path in advance when there are so many things that you can't predict (ignore this if you are a psychic :D)? 3. People often think that if you are "following your passion" everything suddenly becomes easy. I'd say that even if you follow your passion, there will be days when you just don't want to do anything related to it, and you have to force yourself to get work done. I like my current freelance work, but it's not like I have an orgasm every time I write something, and I doubt that if I'd be doing something else that I like even more I'd have an orgasm every time when I do that. I think that people who are actually passionate about what they are doing are not very likely to say that the process of getting things done is very easy if you are doing something that you like. Sure it's much easier than doing something you absolutely hate, but passion or not, getting things done will still require discipline, time management, and sacrifices. - - - I do agree that people should do what they love for a living, but I think the "finding your passion" and "doing what you love" should be really clarified, and Cal seems to be doing a great job. I'm looking forward to reading your book!
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Justin
TL;DR
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Agota
Note: "I like my current freelance work, but it’s not like I have an orgasm every time I write something, and I doubt that if I’d be doing something else that I like even more I’d have an orgasm every time when I do that." Doing something that I like even more means doing work that I'm more passionate about. Just a note for all you people whose minds are as dirty as mine :D
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Susan
I can verify this approach works and works well. When my daughter and I escaped my abusive first husband, I: 1) determined how much money I wanted to make to raise my child and live a lifestyle with which I'd be comfortable 2) looked at which career paths would make that much money in the coming years (using predictive data from numerous sources and talking to people in various fields identified). 3) determined software development would be the next big thing. 4) went back to college (already had a BA) and picked up enough courses to get into the field of software development (this was early 80s). 5) identified my strengths as software planning, interface design, specification writing, and end-user information 6) got a job in a Fortune 500 company that featured my skills 7) became an expert in information architecture planning 8) was a success in a narrow field. The important thing was that I hated everything about computers back when I was getting my BA. Only the business types and nerds worked with computers. I avoided them completely. By completely avoiding the passion trap (my passions cost money, they don't make money) and focusing on the lifestyle I wanted and future job availability, I ignored my hatred (probably just fear) of computers and found a niche that was comfortable and led to a good lifestyle. I used my income to support my passions. I hope your readers take this advice to heart because it really does work. Thanks Ramit. P.S. I was at a library in Feb in the Midwest with my second husband. When we left, I said I'd never seen so many hookers in the library (getting warm, as it was about 20 below outside). My husband looked at me and said, "Hookers? Where?" He would have stood right next to Cal, checking out those curtains!
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L
This advice is SO TRUE! Passion is overrated. Money and decent lifestyle are not.
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BB
There's another detail here that I don't think anyone has mentioned; spending time working at mastery of something is a clear way to figure out what you're passionate about. Getting out into the world and trying stuff out is a far better (and quicker) way of figuring out your passion than endless introspection. If you can find something you're willing to work on for ten years and become amazing at, chances are you've found something that's intrinsically pleasurable for you. There's also a beauty to working hard and doing a good job at whatever one is doing, whether it's washing dishes, teaching a child, writing software, or playing a piano sonata. Finding pleasure in the simple accomplishment of good work is an important step to gaining mastery at anything.
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Lisa-Marie Cabrelli
I read this post a few days ago and then came across this post and loved it: http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/09/solving_gen_ys_passion_problem.html - I was headed back on over here to tell you about how this post was such a great companion piece, only to find out that Cal Newport has already posted. I agree with you both 100% and can imagine why this view is unpopular with those who like the "rah-rah". I got some serious schtick from other attendees at a Seth Godin workshop for publicly admitting that I wasn't passionate about one of the products that I was developing. You know what - not everything in business or life has to be mind-blowing and fun. Just because I love being an entrepreneur doesn't mean I love every single minute of my day. A lot of what needs to get done to develop a passion for something is just plain old hard work.
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Sunil @ The CPA Profession
can't agree more with this article. you can be passionate about eating pizza, but I doubt anyone would pay. you are right in that picking from a list of available professions that you can get passionate about. I think passion can be created. I certainly did for the CPA profession. do I have other greater passions in life? sure do, but none of those would pay more than what I am earn as a CPA.
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James Petzke @ This Is Common Cents
I totally agree with this article. I have yet to find me true "passion" in life, but that isn't stopping me from developing skills that have lots of earning potential. I absolutely hate web programming, but I still keep the skills I have at it sharp so I can make money from it. And while I enjoy writing and blogging much more, they have yet provide me with the same kind of money. I love public speaking more than anything, and my dream is to be a professional speaker, but first I'm focusing on becoming an expert at something, that way I actually have a skill that I can talk about.
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Greg
I absolutely agree and find the concept of following your passion incredibly vague. It is almost like a back door to avoiding success. Targeting a lifestyle and going for something that supports it makes more sense. Daring to do something different and rare makes you stand and become more valuable. Your approach makes a lot more sense.
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Brent Hale
Oh man, what an awesome post. Us humans love to have excuses for why we aren't successful. So, naturally we fall victim to this 'find your passion' thing, because it gives us an excuse for our mediocre life. We think, "Oh yeah! That's why my life sucks... I haven't found my passion!" This discovery, of course, only leads to these people switching their passions every year or so. As soon as they meet failure, their passion 'coincidentally' changes. I can personally attest to the woes of this line of thinking... I spent the majority of my first trip to college stoned out of my mind and wondering why nobody would pay me millions of dollars to express my creativity. When that ended in a one-way ticket to my Mom's basement, I knew I was doing something wrong! I had already targeted my ideal lifestyle long before (one that can really only be described as something similar to the life that Tony Stark lives). That's when I decided to employ the tactic you described in step 3... make myself valuable. In my years of recovery from the what-the-fuck-is-my-passion syndrome, I have discovered that passion doesn't breed hard work... hard work breeds passion. And, so, this message really rings true to me. Thanks Cal! Now forgive me, but I must return to working on getting this suit of titanium alloy armor to shoot powerful beams of energy at brick walls...
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Karya
I don't think this comment will show but: I strongly disagree. In my country everyone screw their passion to make a living. And here I am saying "I'll be an artist even if it means I'll starve" First of all i have one life and I won't spend it on something which won't make me as happy as I am when I am covered with paint and surrounded with my drawings. I'm am skilled and intelligent enough to be an engineer or a doctor and maybe I can make money but I can't dare to imagine myself anywhere but a workshop in 10 years. Secondly keeping a hobby for passion is not the same thing to dedicate your existence to feed on your passion. I'm only in high school now and been painting for 5 years now and I cannot spare enough time to draw. What will happen if I become a doctor? 1 drawing a week? Hell no! That won't feed my passion when I end up drawing for 3 days straight in summer breaks and then take a day off cause I'm getting high on painting chemicals and probably my hair is stained with heavy paint. And last of all, your target style usually match your passion if you are really in love with something. I'm only happy when I can be artistically creative and I want to live in a lifestyle with people who can share the same taste of art with me and where I can draw every Single day. Also music or drawing or knitting... nothing comes with pure talent. It comes with practise. I get really irritated when people go like "it's easy to say you will follow your passion. You are gifted in arts" NO! ? started with kindergarten drawings in the same age as everyone and kept drawing for years. It's practise and hard work and dedication to follow what I love. And that's what creates us Einsteins and piccasos and Shakespeares. Following your passion, willing to die following it. Maybe I'll starve and maybe I'll end up in a bad life. I don't care as long as I'll make enough money to buy drawing supplies
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Yen
Please be back on this thread once you joined the workforce. I am not saying that you won't earn an income from being an artist. This is not to discourage you as well. You are still young and I would expect you to somehow change your views about this topic.
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Rencontre en ligne
Hi colleagues, how is everything, and what you want to say concedning this article, in my view its genuinely awesome in support of me.
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Amanda
You're right, it's not all about just passion. It's about giving everything you have every day and finding that motivation.
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CL
Cal's post and book remind me of this Mark Cuban blog post: http://blogmaverick.com/2012/03/18/dont-follow-your-passion-follow-your-effort/ It's true that once you're really good at something, you can have the freedom of choice. I know that time affluence is very important to me, especially since I want to have great relationships with my family and friends.