- How does it change if you’re a woman and it’s the man who has the $80K in debt?
- It’s easy to say you would walk away from someone who’s run up tens of thousands of dollars of debt, but by the time you find this out, aren’t you already in love? Are you putting a price on love?
Data I recently collected. I actually suspect most of the respondents are lying about how soon they have a serious discussion with their partners about money.So now you have a Catch-22: If you talk about money too early, you come across as a weirdo/gold-digger/controlling freak. If you wait too long, you’re already embroiled in the relationship. How are you going to walk away from the love of your life if you find out he has $40K of CC debt? It’s easier to rationalize that “we’ll try harder” and “things will get better” than to pack up and walk away. That’s human nature. So, what would you do? QUESTIONS:
- When would you talk to your partner about money in a new relationship? Be honest and don’t say what you “think” you should do, say what you ACTUALLY did in your last relationship.
- Is there a certain number (e.g., $80K of debt) that would make you seriously reconsider the relationship? If not, what would?
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