Part 6 of the car debacle
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Yesterday, “John” finally emailed me. I’m not really sure what to even say, so I’ll just paste some of the email conversation.
Yeah I did trade the car for a different one. The price was about 10% more than the original car deal. What happened was I went down there on Monday, saying I wanted to return it, because of the ridiculous APR and I didn’t really like the car… they said I had no grace period and was the owner, and the only thing they could do for me was trade it for something else. So my new plan was to get a car for 10k to minimize finance charges(they wouldn’t finance anything less they say) but they were jerking me around so much every time I asked about seeing the car they would say it was sold or tell me it would cost at least 5-6k more than what it was listed on the website, with “bank fees” or something ridiculous. They were obviously ONLY going to get me into a car of equal or greater value. They realized they had all the power and weren’t enthused about helping get out of the car that A: I didn’t really want, B: couldn’t afford. So I could have paid 15k on a 9 thousand dollar car, or I could get a car that I liked, that was actually worth what it was being sold to me for.
I could have said “no, get me out of this car deal or I will leave the car here and ignore the payments”, but I knew I would be paying for my poor credit sooner or later, so I decided to get into a car I liked, and then pursue refinancing.
We went back and forth a little bit, and then he replied with refreshing honesty:
The bottom line is that I don’t see myself as the innocent victim of the crooked dealership like Vincent does. I should have made absolutely clear about the grace period, and I shouldn’t have been considering such an expensive car at a high interest rate in the first place. I am the victim of my own ignorance and my impulsive actions.
At this point I am looking to make the best of a bad situation, and build my credit in the process.
We all make bad choices sometimes, so while it’s fun to point out what poor decision-making went into this process, I also felt sorry for him. My friend Josh at the Credit Union National Association had put out the word for help and, within an hour, he had gotten me in touch with the Colorado State Employees Credit Union.
Here’s the cool part: One of their employees, Melissa Sexe, sent me an email and offered to chat with John to see what options he had. Can you imagine Wells Fargo taking note of this and volunteering to help? This is one of the reasons I love credit unions.
I sent Melissa’s info to John (here’s why I did it that way, not the other way around). So now it’s on John. Let’s see what happens.
PS–Thanks to Melissa at the Colorado State Employees Credit Union and Josh at the Credit Union National Association. Even if they can’t help John, I think it speaks enormously highly of them that they offered to try to help so quickly.

