I was humbled

I want to talk about mythical “unicorns” -- people who are so good at what they do, you almost cannot believe it. These people exist. When I was younger and an arrogant, stupid 20-something guy, I couldn’t believe someone could actually be better than me at something. Then I grew up and learned the meaning of being humbled. In ...

What happens when women earn more than men?

I’ve written about gender and money before. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or woman -- for a lot of people, this is one of the greatest taboos you can possibly talk about (even more than people anonymously sharing their salaries). Yes, men and women react to money differently. Yes, they have different scripts. And yes, ...

Win 2 roundtrip tickets to Hawaii

I’ve been to Hawaii a few times. Once, I got invited to speak there for some financial event, so I got all excited and packed for a 4-day trip. When I got there, I realized I’d forgotten flip-flops, so I went down to the gift shop to get some. $55 for flip-flops!! This was years ago, when I ...

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Sex or salary: which would you rather talk about?

Sex vs. salary: Which would you rather talk about?

My friend, a perpetual Manhattan bachelor, just got into a relationship with a sweet girl. So naturally, we invited them out and asked EXTREMELY uncomfortable questions, primarily for my amusement. “How’d you make the first move? No, no, slow down...literally, tell us every word. Show us your text messages too, please.” “How do you talk dirty in bed? ...

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What’s the best thing you learned from your parents?

One of my students asked this amazing question, and I loved it so much that I want to share it with the entire IWT community. She asked my group of top-performing IWT readers -- members of Ramit’s Brain Trust -- what we’d learned from our parents and what we’re GRATEFUL for. I included my response below. I’...

How to find love using psychology

If there is one thing I have learned in my decades on this earth, it is this: Beware of a woman trying to set you up with her friend. “She’s really nice and she has a great job and--” ZzzZzzz THAT IS NOT WHAT GUYS CARE ABOUT! Would I set up a female friend by saying, “You should meet ...