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Congratulations to your folks. What a great accomplishment. Hope they have many more years.

Your Mom is right. Once I got married, that's it.

I love what your mother said about marriage! If more people had that perspective when walking down the aisle, there wouldn't be as many divorces as there are today.

I agree with your mother, in terms of long-term commitments - you don't give yourself any choice.

Thats exactly how I feel about my retirement savings. I refuse to be screwed when I am older, so I am going to start now. I put 7% of my income (my goal is to get up to 20%), and 50% of my Cafepress sales towards retirement/investment savings - without question. I act like it isn't a choice, it's something I must do, and I will sacrifice other things in order to make that savings payment.

I've recommended this to all my friends, and one in particular always gives the excuse that she has too many other expenses, so she can't afford it. She has her credit cards, business to start and a house she wants to buy. But... thats how life is. You'll always have expenses in life. Thats why you have to treat retirement/investment savings as if it's not a choice.

happy anniversary to your mom n dad!

This is great and great advice as it pertains to investments. Though there certainly are some people who should never be married/divorced, so it doesn't always work applied in that context. I think having that attitude can help though.

cute post ramit!

Ramit, very nice post.

It's good to step back every once in a while and reassess what is most important.

Congratulations to your parents!

tell i said happy anniversary..Ramit...thats one hell of a commit 31yrs...congratulations

I'd like to add a point to ramit. Ideas not only come from around us, but from within us. Think of the times when u achieved success, think of the attitude you displayed to achieve, apply the same attitude during testing times, it sure helps overcome any failure. From my experience, i've realised that the more committed you are to your goal, you relate it to everything you come across, and some where from one of the most unexpected source, a brilliant idea pops up. This sort of commitment is what it takes for one to make it big. Cheers!

Awesome, it sounds like your parents are very exceptional people with high integrity.

Nick

Very inspiring blog! Intuitively your ideas make sense but some of us thirty-something "adults" have forgotten that boundless capacity in ourselves for growth and taking (calculated) risks. Thanks again!!

I just wanted to let you know why I'm not visiting your blog anymore. I enjoy your writing, but the format is just too much strain on my weak-ass computer. I thought I remembered you saying that you would fix the excessive load time by changing the format, but I just got tired of waiting.

So, this isn't so much a complaint as it is my honoring your awesome blog by telling you of my reason for eliminating it from my list of daily reads. Consider it an FYI-- keep up the good writing, and congrats to your folks!

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Fixed. -Ramit

My girlfriend (who i am planning on proposing to this weekend) cried when i read this to her last night.

Your post reminded me of a poli-sci professor I had who said, after studying the statistics, that you just need to do just 3 things in life to reach a comfortable middle class lifestyle.

1. Get a 4 year undergraduate degree.

2. Only get married once and stay married.

3. Have no more than one child.

His view was that if you did those three things anyone could have a piece of the "American Dream."

Great post - I've been married for just over a year and a half and it's the best decision of my life. She's right - you have to know it's for life going in. That's the only way it works.

I just got introduced to this blog by a good friend. Boy.... It has tickled my mind big time. Great stuff here and more Congrats to your Parents.