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		<title>By: JaM</title>
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		<dc:creator>JaM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 20:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways,
but the folly of fools is deception. Prov 14:8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways,<br />
but the folly of fools is deception. Prov 14:8</p>
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		<title>By: Weekend Edition: Great Tex Mex and More&#8230; &#124; Fiscal Musings</title>
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		<dc:creator>Weekend Edition: Great Tex Mex and More&#8230; &#124; Fiscal Musings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 06:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How Not to Lose is an article over at I Will Teach You To Be Rich. It talks about how we should focus more on how [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How Not to Lose is an article over at I Will Teach You To Be Rich. It talks about how we should focus more on how [...]</p>
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		<title>By: RT Wolf</title>
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		<dc:creator>RT Wolf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 05:41:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My favourite person on this topic is Charlie Munger, long-time partner of Warren Buffett. You can find his &quot;24 Standard Causes of Human Misjudgement&quot; speech here:

http://www.loschmanagement.com/Berkshire%20Hathaway/Charlie%20munger/The%20Psychology%20of%20Human%20Misjudgement.htm

I realize that some of what he talks about me seem rambling or hard to understand if you&#039;re not previously familiar with him, but I assure you, it is well worth your time to figure him out. He is a very wise man and I don&#039;t know many wise folk that are alive. Most wise folk just seem to be dead. Maybe its a prerequisite. One of the things Munger suggests is also that you can get quite successful by simply not making some of these very systematic errors.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favourite person on this topic is Charlie Munger, long-time partner of Warren Buffett. You can find his &#8220;24 Standard Causes of Human Misjudgement&#8221; speech here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.loschmanagement.com/Berkshire%20Hathaway/Charlie%20munger/The%20Psychology%20of%20Human%20Misjudgement.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.loschmanagement.com/Berkshire%20Hathaway/Charlie%20munger/The%20Psychology%20of%20Human%20Misjudgement.htm</a></p>
<p>I realize that some of what he talks about me seem rambling or hard to understand if you&#8217;re not previously familiar with him, but I assure you, it is well worth your time to figure him out. He is a very wise man and I don&#8217;t know many wise folk that are alive. Most wise folk just seem to be dead. Maybe its a prerequisite. One of the things Munger suggests is also that you can get quite successful by simply not making some of these very systematic errors.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s good to have some balance to the many posts/books/articles which say &quot;you too can be rich/a superstar etc&quot;. 

It does seem that many (especially younger) people these days seem to believe that just by wanting something a lot, they WILL get it.  Just watch some of the reality shows like &quot;American Idol&quot; to see this kind of thinking in action.

The other thing to bear in mind about books written about or by  business or financial superstars, is that they are generally written with the benefit of hindsight. Can they still remember their exact motivations and thinking behind some transation from years or decades ago? Maybe they were just lucky at the time, and have subsequently fit the deal into their current way of thinking. 

I do think &quot;luck&quot; does have a big part to play in success, though you still need hard work, perseverance and belief to take advantage of that luck IF it appears, and if you spot it.

(And &quot;luck&quot;, to me, is really short-hand way of describing being in the right place at the right time, with the right product, and the right customer on the other end of the transaction. But even when all that happens, you still might not see the opportunity, or you might fumble it!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s good to have some balance to the many posts/books/articles which say &#8220;you too can be rich/a superstar etc&#8221;. </p>
<p>It does seem that many (especially younger) people these days seem to believe that just by wanting something a lot, they WILL get it.  Just watch some of the reality shows like &#8220;American Idol&#8221; to see this kind of thinking in action.</p>
<p>The other thing to bear in mind about books written about or by  business or financial superstars, is that they are generally written with the benefit of hindsight. Can they still remember their exact motivations and thinking behind some transation from years or decades ago? Maybe they were just lucky at the time, and have subsequently fit the deal into their current way of thinking. </p>
<p>I do think &#8220;luck&#8221; does have a big part to play in success, though you still need hard work, perseverance and belief to take advantage of that luck IF it appears, and if you spot it.</p>
<p>(And &#8220;luck&#8221;, to me, is really short-hand way of describing being in the right place at the right time, with the right product, and the right customer on the other end of the transaction. But even when all that happens, you still might not see the opportunity, or you might fumble it!)</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 00:16:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was hoping to see something a more about the psychological impact of losing (or the fear of losing) than cognitive dissonance. The problem with telling people that they should learn to stop sucking at life rather than how to be great is that it implies that the speaker believes that the audience is, indeed, sucking at life.

It&#039;s probably a true assumption almost any time you address a largish sort of audience, yet I can only read and listen on an individual level. And, frankly, I&#039;m a little annoyed that you assume that I&#039;m so incompetent. I reiterate: I understand that you aren&#039;t talking to me, specifically. Nevertheless, Eliezer, you come off like an ass.

I criticize only because I think your tone could use a little work. After all, two-thirds of all the jerks in the world think that they&#039;re pretty nice, helpful people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was hoping to see something a more about the psychological impact of losing (or the fear of losing) than cognitive dissonance. The problem with telling people that they should learn to stop sucking at life rather than how to be great is that it implies that the speaker believes that the audience is, indeed, sucking at life.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s probably a true assumption almost any time you address a largish sort of audience, yet I can only read and listen on an individual level. And, frankly, I&#8217;m a little annoyed that you assume that I&#8217;m so incompetent. I reiterate: I understand that you aren&#8217;t talking to me, specifically. Nevertheless, Eliezer, you come off like an ass.</p>
<p>I criticize only because I think your tone could use a little work. After all, two-thirds of all the jerks in the world think that they&#8217;re pretty nice, helpful people.</p>
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		<title>By: Honza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Honza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 23:05:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Of course there is no &quot;guide&quot; to becoming superstar. I do like success stories, though. I think that the most important lesson you can learn from those is how successful people think, what do they believe in, ...
You see that it&#039;s hard work, clear goal, and such things that helped them to get where they wanted to be. You cannot replicate their actions, you can get to know their mindset, though. That&#039;s what counts. Also you often get a lot of inspiration and motivation from such books.

Learning from your and other mistakes is essential but I also believe that thinking too much about losing, even if it means thinking about how not to lose, is not good.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of course there is no &#8220;guide&#8221; to becoming superstar. I do like success stories, though. I think that the most important lesson you can learn from those is how successful people think, what do they believe in, &#8230;<br />
You see that it&#8217;s hard work, clear goal, and such things that helped them to get where they wanted to be. You cannot replicate their actions, you can get to know their mindset, though. That&#8217;s what counts. Also you often get a lot of inspiration and motivation from such books.</p>
<p>Learning from your and other mistakes is essential but I also believe that thinking too much about losing, even if it means thinking about how not to lose, is not good.</p>
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		<title>By: John Wayne's Kid</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Wayne's Kid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 21:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In each stock transaction, there has to be someone to take the opposite position.  This is especially clear in the future&#039;s market.  People got rich in the stock market, real estate market, futures, etc. because some one was selling when they were buying or buying when they were selling.  As long as that happens, which will be always, there will be winners and loosers.  What made Warren Buffett and others great is that they had the vision to buy when they needed to and sell when they needed to.  That gut instinct can be refined, but rarely taught.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In each stock transaction, there has to be someone to take the opposite position.  This is especially clear in the future&#8217;s market.  People got rich in the stock market, real estate market, futures, etc. because some one was selling when they were buying or buying when they were selling.  As long as that happens, which will be always, there will be winners and loosers.  What made Warren Buffett and others great is that they had the vision to buy when they needed to and sell when they needed to.  That gut instinct can be refined, but rarely taught.</p>
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		<title>By: MyNameIsMatt</title>
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		<dc:creator>MyNameIsMatt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 20:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Dereque, I wouldn&#039;t call the post defeatist just realistic and pragmatic. Idealism is still a major part of successful people, but personally, I find this post extremely refreshing because I&#039;m sick of all the idealism that gets thrown around most topics.

Eliezer removes some of the sexy, and adds a little wisdom much like Ramit does when he posts. Everyone likes to focus on the sexy side of finances, entrepreneurship, business, etc., but that seems to lead lots of people into the ground. Enthusiasm is easy, idealism is easy, follow through is hard, execution is hard, and both require commitment and dedication which tend to get lost in the sexiness of a topic.

I meet more people with enthusiasm and idealism than I do with actual success from execution and follow through. From my own entrepreneurial adventures, I&#039;ve found that everyone is willing to share their opinion, eager to find a way to attach themselves to an idea, but few to none are willing to push the rock up the hill. Those people could use a little of what Eliezer talks about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Dereque, I wouldn&#8217;t call the post defeatist just realistic and pragmatic. Idealism is still a major part of successful people, but personally, I find this post extremely refreshing because I&#8217;m sick of all the idealism that gets thrown around most topics.</p>
<p>Eliezer removes some of the sexy, and adds a little wisdom much like Ramit does when he posts. Everyone likes to focus on the sexy side of finances, entrepreneurship, business, etc., but that seems to lead lots of people into the ground. Enthusiasm is easy, idealism is easy, follow through is hard, execution is hard, and both require commitment and dedication which tend to get lost in the sexiness of a topic.</p>
<p>I meet more people with enthusiasm and idealism than I do with actual success from execution and follow through. From my own entrepreneurial adventures, I&#8217;ve found that everyone is willing to share their opinion, eager to find a way to attach themselves to an idea, but few to none are willing to push the rock up the hill. Those people could use a little of what Eliezer talks about.</p>
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		<title>By: 7million7years</title>
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		<dc:creator>7million7years</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 18:27:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dafd, Poor Dad) taught me the real difference between an asset and a liability.

Michael Gerber (E-Myth Revisited) taught me how to create my life&#039;s purpose; how to turn that into The Number, and how to run my businesses.

The Richest Man in Babylon taught me about paying myself first, the power of compounding, and more.

Every book (and blog) I read still teaches me something ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dafd, Poor Dad) taught me the real difference between an asset and a liability.</p>
<p>Michael Gerber (E-Myth Revisited) taught me how to create my life&#8217;s purpose; how to turn that into The Number, and how to run my businesses.</p>
<p>The Richest Man in Babylon taught me about paying myself first, the power of compounding, and more.</p>
<p>Every book (and blog) I read still teaches me something &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Duane Gran</title>
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		<dc:creator>Duane Gran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 18:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The advice is good, but I&#039;m trying to reconcile this with another viewpoint:  Most people have just enough ambition to not fail, but not enough to succeed.  Many people are paralyzed by a fear of failure.

Maybe the author believes that the focus on success stories in a way feeds off the fear of failure, as it is easier to imagine oneself replicating a success story than to reflect on how a failure story may explain one&#039;s mediocrity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The advice is good, but I&#8217;m trying to reconcile this with another viewpoint:  Most people have just enough ambition to not fail, but not enough to succeed.  Many people are paralyzed by a fear of failure.</p>
<p>Maybe the author believes that the focus on success stories in a way feeds off the fear of failure, as it is easier to imagine oneself replicating a success story than to reflect on how a failure story may explain one&#8217;s mediocrity.</p>
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