Debating minutiae and health

Ramit Sethi · November 2nd, 2005

From the New York Times:

“I was crossing Third Avenue yesterday and I was coughing so hard I had to stop and barely made it across,” a patient told me last week. “I’m really scared I’m getting the avian flu.”

I just looked at him. What could I say? He has smoked two packs of cigarettes a day for the last 50 years. He has coughed and wheezed and gasped his way across Third Avenue now for the last 10 years. His emphysema is not going to get any better, but it might stop getting worse if he were to stop smoking.

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He made it clear long ago that this is not going to happen. When it comes to the whole cigarette/health question, his motto, apparently, is “What, me worry?”

But the avian flu — now there’s a health scare a person can sink his teeth into. So scary and yet, somehow, so pleasantly distant. So thrilling, so chilling, and yet, at the same time, so not here, not now, not yet. All in all, a completely satisfying health care fear experience. Unlike his actual illness.

In another example, she notes the following:

We looked at each other. It was an impasse. The fact that logic was on my side mattered not at all: evidently the real was just a little too real for her. How much better to find another illness to be scared of, obsess over, get treated for, get rid of.

Read the entire NYTimes essay, or my original article on debating minutiae.

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  1. people just do crazy things. I use to smoke too, it was a habit I got during college. I quit for health and economic reasons.

  2. This is something my wife and I have been discussing lately.

    The wet dish rags by the kitchen sink are a much bigger health hazard than (at least many of 🙂 the additives in our food. And the stress that we get from worrying about the additives in our food probably does our body more harm than the additives do.

    (Not that we shouldn’t try to minimize such stuff in our diet!)

  3. Well written atlrcie Erin.. something we all experience at times.. as a runner/sports performance coach and human being.. familiar with what you experienced.. Also as a former resident of that area (New Hyde Park) I ran those roads.. beautiful country..Perhaps I can help you with the why you had so much trouble with that run I teach a signature class called Ready to Run .. and will be starting a meet-up group soon teaching those concepts.. See you on the roads, Brett


    You people are nuts. If you had around a billion $$ you would do the same thing. So many haters. Give it to charity? They both donate millions. Look yourself in the mirror before you comment.


    I totally love your version. Feels so much more real 🙂 Also love your poncho and sun glass collection. you have so much wisdom to share Vix. I wish I am able to implement in my life more actively.