When friends say, “Tell me if I ever get in a bad relationship…”

...THEY NEVER MEAN IT! How many friends do you know who said, “Let’s make a promise: If either of us gets in a bad relationship, we’ll tell the other person we don’t like their boyfriend/girlfriend.” You both agree, smiling, happy you can be so open with your friend. (It’s like two 4-year-old boys solemnly pledging ...

How to travel the world, create a life that doesn’t suck, and explore the happiness of pursuit — with Chris Guillebeau

Last month, I was travelling in Asia and had some time to kill at the Hong Kong airport. I knew exactly who to text.   From one picture, this dude knew exactly where I was sitting, and then recommended other lounges for me to visit based on my gate number. It takes a real weirdo to know that level of detail ...

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How to find love using psychology

If there is one thing I have learned in my decades on this earth, it is this: Beware of a woman trying to set you up with her friend. “She’s really nice and she has a great job and--” ZzzZzzz THAT IS NOT WHAT GUYS CARE ABOUT! Would I set up a female friend by saying, “You should meet ...

Examples of spending on the things you LOVE?

I was reading this Reddit thread where people talk about their biggest discretionary expenses and it got me thinking. It’s so rare to see that kind of honesty, where people talk about what they really enjoy, guilt-free. It’s very different than the finger-waving nagging you see from so many people who tell you what you CAN’T do. ...

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How to conquer self-sabotage

You’re about to get advice from a guy who was recently listening to Pandora, heard an awesome song come on, loved it enough to search for the lyrics, and paused when he realized it was by Miley Cyrus. Then he (I) added it to his playlist. When I look at you... . Let’s talk about FRIENDS WITH EXCUSES. Do ...

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How to Systematically Cure Your Anxiety

If there’s one thing I love, it’s “The Emperor Has No Clothes” moments when you realize everyone’s feeling something...but nobody is saying it. It happened when I finally got behind closed doors with my friends and we started telling the truth. How many of us sit and stare at screens for over 8 hours/day? How ...