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February 28 17 Comments latest by DSPF » Blog Archive » Guest Post: Just got married? Heres what you need to know.28…
[From Ramit: Today is Todd Doerr’s 3rd and final guest post. Earlier this week, he wrote about what to do before you file your taxes this year, and how college students can save their parents money.
This post is written for newly married couples. The closest I’ve come to writing about this was my long post on weddings, so it’s about time.
Notice how Todd’s tips below have no secrets: They’re very similar to most financial advice about starting early and setting priorities. But the way in which he frames it really does make you think.
Stay tuned tomorrow for something cool.]
Congratulations. What an exciting season of life.
Maybe you are newly engaged and in the middle of planning your wedding day and honeymoon.
I would like to share some time-tested ideas with you to strengthen your marriage, to help you build wealth together as a team, and to help you avoid common financial pitfalls of married couples. (Learn from my pain!). This article will give you a specific game plan to start on TODAY.

By the way, this advice is for the bride and the groom. Building wealth and avoiding financial pitfalls is a team sport – one person cannot carry the financial load for both (unless you do not want to thrive financially)!
I need to admit something to you before we start. I absolutely enjoy coaching newly married couples. Why? Because you are sitting in one of the most fantastic wealth building seasons of your life. You have the most potential because time is on your side. If you work together, the sound habits and choices you make today will impact your marriage for years to come.
Let me begin by sharing what happens with many couples after the big day. Every couple has a unique story, but often newly marrieds take a similar path. You will probably see some of yourself, or better yet, your spouse, in this story.
Honeymoon Lifestyle
Eric and Shelby had just returned to the “real world” after their honeymoon. Back to their jobs and the daily grind of working. Oh yea, there were lots of thank you’s to write for the wedding gifts. Then the Visa statement arrived with all of the honeymoon expenses.
Then, the vicious cycle began. The best way I can sum up their first few years of marriage for them: Consumer Debt Death Cycle. They both had good paying jobs, but even those did not cover their “honeymoon lifestyle”. They were the king and queen of eating out. They both drove new cars that they financed and leased. Clothes – they bought pretty much whatever they wanted. Travel – the honeymoon was just the beginning – they traveled to Europe, Mexico, and throughout the U.S. They belonged to the health club. They were Starbuck’s Customers of the Year. And they bought their first little cottage house in the quaint part of the city.
They did not have a written budget and did not argue about money. Ignorance was bliss.
Then, Shelby got a big bonus at work. PRICELESS. They paid off some of their credit cards and felt so good about themselves. Then….
They bought that really nice home theater system and the cycle continued to build momentum. Sound familiar?
About this time, they were ready to start growing their family (i.e. have children). I’m sure you have some sense of what it might cost to raise a child. Baby formula, clothes, diapers, doctor visits (about 6 the first year of life), hospital and delivery charges, child care, baby furniture - It adds up! Oh yea – that cute little cottage house was no longer big enough. And they decided that they had to have the (dreaded) mini-van. (I can’t bring myself to that personally!)
You’re probably thinking – yes, Todd, but their income went up. Yes, incomes increased. But somehow the expenses “magically” keep right along with their raises. Sound familiar?
Fast forward a few years – their second child was on the way. The honeymoon was long over. Eric and Shelby were tired – both working full-time and raising a 2 year old. The lack of sleep was catching up. Money was really tight and argued often over money. Eric questioned Shelby about every little expense. Shelby became resentful and began to have “I deserve it” trips to the mall. They “kinda” had a budget, but they only looked at it every 3 months.
Eventually they met with a financial coach who gave them enough “tough love” so that they could wake up and stop this cycle. They worked as a team over several months to build a realistic budget (it doesn’t happen overnight). Fast forward 18 months later, after many decisions and sacrifices, they were consumer debt-free and had an emergency fund for the first time in their lives.
All of the money that was going to car payments and Visa was now available for saving and having some financial breathing room. They kept on the same “game plan” and their daily money fights became rare.
I tell many of my clients “It’s not always easy or pretty, but it always works.” I really mean it. With years of bad habits to break, making major habit changes is tough, but worth the sacrifice.
As a coach, the best financial advice I can share with you, the newlyweds is this:
Build a foundation for a thriving marriage and future by starting sound and balanced money habits.
Let me share with you some practical ways to make this happen.
The Big Reasons for a Game Plan
Let me show you what’s possible as a couple when you live a balanced lifestyle and save for the future. By the way, I’m not saying to stop all fun and to stop buying nice things – but those have to be taken in moderation.
Let’s say you have no consumer debt and have an emergency fund, and you work diligently to save $300 each month (which is very possible if you eliminate consumer debt), starting at age 25 until age 65 in a retirement account earning 8% each year. At age 65, you could have approximately $1 Million in savings. Even if you are older than 25, you can still make real progress on retirement savings on $300 per month. If $1 Million will not support your desired lifestyle, save even more. Just get started and make it happen.
In the end, it’s not really about the money. It’s about the freedom and choices that it gives you as a family. It’s about the peace of mind that comes from having money in the bank when tough things happen in life. We all face tough challenges at some point.
The Newly Engaged Game Plan
If you are engaged, but not married yet:
The Newly Married Game Plan
Here are practical steps and habits you should start TODAY.

Changing Your Family’s Future
So, there you go. I have shared my top ideas for helping you to start to build a thriving future. I will say this again: YOU ARE SITTING IN ONE OF THE MOST FANTASTIC WEALTH-BUILDING SEASONS OF YOUR LIFE.
You are at the moment of decision – are you going to bury your heads in the sand and just be like everyone else (nearly broke or just not thriving)? Or will you, as a couple, embrace new habits and a game plan for success.
Blessings,
Todd
Todd Doerr is a personal finance coach. He helps his clients to rapidly get out of debt and to build serious wealth. He tells his clients, “It’s not always easy or pretty, but it always works.” You may reach him at todd_doerr@yahoo.com or at www.taxmakeover.com.
[Update]
1. See the two other articles Todd wrote:
2. Then check out his eBook, The 2008 Tax Makeover Guide

February 26 19 Comments latest by *sigh*
[From Ramit: Yesterday, Todd wrote about what to do before you file your taxes.
Today, this article is specifically for college students. I know, I know. You feel guilty because your parents are paying thousands every semester while you’re busy napping all day and trying to spit game at the girl next door. And failing.
Your parents may be able to save on taxes if they follow some of the instructions below. Take a look and send them this article.]
Are you in college or about to attend college? Are you in your junior or senior year? Consider sending this to your parents. This article has a lot of with ideas that may help save your parents thousands of dollars each year and may even put some extra money in your pocket.

I can sense it now. You must be feeling some pride (or bewilderment) that your college student is thinking about how to help you financially and how to make your life a little easier. Who would have thought that your student would start to get a financial clue?
I’ve coached many families who already have college students or will soon have at least one child in college. There are ways to successfully navigate the waters of paying for college. In this article, I will share a game plan with you, the parents, to make your life easier and to help your student get off to a strong start in the real world. I will also provide you with some tax-savings ideas that may speed up your progress even faster.
Let’s first look into the financial future of your college student once they graduate.
Post-Graduation Snowball
As you are probably aware, the typical college graduate has both credit card and student loan debt. Recent graduates have an average of over $19,000 of student loans and over $3000 of credit card debt. The typical graduate degree student leaves with $24,000 to over $100,000 of student loans.
So, your college graduate begins the new season in their life and the snowball builds….
Then, your graduate buys the new car (take it from someone who bought the new car one month after walking the stage - it happens a lot). Another $300 per month in payments out the door.
Then, your graduate rents the nice apartment as they are sick and tired of dorm life or the college apartment. Oh yea, that nice apartment makes the college furniture look nasty. New furniture on the MasterCard – PRICELESS.
Then, your graduate starts making payments on the student loans (sure, the interest rate might be fairly low, but the payment still stinks). Potentially hundreds more of outflow each month.
Then, all of their friends start to get married and everyone starts dropping serious cash on wedding gifts, parties, travel, dresses, and tuxes. The numbers here really add up when you multiply by the number of friends.
Maybe it’s none of these events - maybe they spend $300 per month eating out. Maybe it’s buying cool gadgets. I’ve coached many clients in their 20’s. Their stories are different, but the result is generally the same. The debt adds up quickly and the minimum monthly debt payments grow substantially.

About this time the two big “M-words” might sneak up – Marriage and Mortgages. You get the picture.
The good news is that the snowball does not have to claim your graduate. They can thrive financially if they live off a budget, get out of consumer debt, and avoid going into additional student loan debt.
The best financial coaching advice that I can share with you, the parents:
Help your child graduate with as little or no debt as possible.
Why? Because when they are free of consumer debt and student loans, they can really begin to thrive financially and to build a hopeful future for themselves.
Let’s say your graduate didn’t have that “normal” student loan payment, the “normal” MasterCard payment, those 2 payments could can easily add up to several hundred dollars per month. Instead, he or she invested $300 per month from age 25 to age 65 in a retirement account earning 8% per year. At age 65, they could have approximately $1 Million in retirement savings. Obviously the cost of living will go up, so it won’t feel as big. But it gets them off to a great start towards retirement savings.
Winning with College Expenses
Here is the overall game plan I share with my clients. It does take some work, but it is truly worth it to follow as many of the strategies as possible.
Review Tax Savings Ideas
Make sure you research every possible income tax savings opportunity - this could save lots of dollars every year of college. By making tax-smart moves, you can free up more money to pay cash for college.
Here is a list to review that may help to boost your plan. Some are best handled by your personal tax accountant.
Tomorrow’s article will outline a financial game plan for the newly engaged and the newly married.
Todd Doerr is a personal finance coach. He helps his clients to rapidly get out of debt and to build serious wealth. He tells his clients, “It’s not always easy or pretty, but it always works.” You may reach him at todd_doerr@yahoo.com or at www.taxmakeover.com.
[Update]
1. See the two other articles Todd wrote:
2. Then check out his eBook, The 2008 Tax Makeover Guide

February 26 49 Comments latest by FD » Blog Archive » Personal Finance, Part 13 Unemployment Risk26 Feb 2008 by D…
[Update: Roth IRA amounts corrected below.]
[From Ramit: Since tax season is here, I wanted to write something about the tax issues we face. But since I’m not an expert, I’ve typically turned to guest posters to help. Last year, David Bergstein answered your tax questions.
This year, I’ve invited Todd Doerr to guest-post for the next three days. Over the next 3 days, he’ll write about taxes for three situations: people in their twenties, college students (I know you’re lazy so you can just point your parents to the article to do all the work), and recently married couples. And on Friday, after the three posts, I’ll announce something pretty cool.
I like this post below because Todd points out that if you’re already saving, why not take a small extra step to dramatically increase your returns?]
Stop. Turn off your ipod. Turn off your phone.
This one post will help you win with money – guaranteed – if you take ACTION. If you are in your 20’s or 30’s, this is going to rock your world.
I coach many individuals and families in my financial coaching practice – they pay me to help them quickly get out of debt and build wealth. Hopefully you are already saving some each month towards retirement. Why not spend an hour to setup a simple, automatic wealth building plan that will double your return?
I’m amazed that only 31% of Generation Y workers (born 1978 or later) are saving for retirement in their 401k, according to Hewitt Associates. You can be light years ahead of your friends if you follow the coaching advice that follows. It will only take an hour of your time – your friends will be amazed!
Let’s dive in - stay with me!
Let me go ahead and spell out the entire purpose of this post:
The Roth IRA is one of your most important wealth building tools. Maybe even the most important. If you consistently invest in your Roth IRA during your working years, you will build substantial wealth.
OK. Maybe it was a little heavy, but I want to get your focused attention for a few minutes. Let’s cover the basics first.
The Nuts and Bolts of the Roth IRA
Here are some of the common questions that I get about the Roth IRA:
Q: Why should I care about a Roth IRA?
A: The short answer: You don’t want to work the rest of your life. Using a Roth IRA consistently, in addition to your 401k, will make you very rich and will change your life. I would argue that if you save aggressively in a Roth IRA, you will open up new options and freedoms in life that you cannot fathom today.
Q: What is a Roth IRA?
A: A Roth IRA is simply a retirement savings account offering amazing “back-end” tax breaks when you take money out at retirement age (59½ years and older). The Roth is a “bucket” – you fill that bucket with good conservative mutual funds (I don’t recommend individual stocks).
Q: How hard is it to setup?
A: 1 Hour – I’m dead serious. I’ll cover the specifics later in this article.
Q: What are some specific benefits?
A: You can withdraw funds without taxes or penalties once you’ve reached age 59½ and held the funds in the Roth for five tax years after the year you make your first contribution. Here’s an example. Let’s say that you worked your buns off for 30 years and had $1 Million dollars in your Roth. When you retire at age 59½ years (or older), you can take out the $1 Million TAX-FREE. It also grows TAX-FREE each year during your career. Don’t think you can save $1 Million? Keep reading on.
Q: What are the limits on a Roth IRA?
A: You can contribute $5000 annually to a Roth ($10,000 for married couples), whether you participate in an employer plan (like 401k) or not, if your AGI (line 37 on Form 1040) is less than $116,000 (joint filers, $169,000).
Q: Anything else I should know about it?
A: You can withdraw your contributions penalty-free should you need them for an emergency. You can contribute at any age as long as you have earned income. There are some
A Sweet Retirement
OK. Onto the cool stuff. Go ahead – take a peek. Wow.
The tables below show what you could have in your Roth IRA if you invested monthly or annually during your career. These numbers assume you invested in a diversified, conservative set of mutual funds that could average 11% annually (stock market has averaged over 11% for over many decades).
You must really like that $400 car payment! Or, maybe the gym membership isn’t looking so fiscally fit anymore. And for sure, the minimum payment to Visa could be put to better use! Maybe the $200 per month for eating out is not so appetizing.
Here are some specific and exciting ways to boost your savings plan.
Anyone in America with a decent income can win! The key is to start TODAY and not hesitate. Set your goal and don’t stop until you reach it - $100 - $200 - $300 - $400!
Annual amount – Assuming 11% return
|
Yearly Contribution |
30 years of saving |
40 years of saving |
|
$1000 |
$220,913 |
$645,826 |
|
$2000 |
$441,826 |
$1,291,653 |
|
$3000 |
$662,739 |
$1,937,480 |
|
$4000 |
$883,652 |
$2,583,307 |
|
$5000 |
$1,104,565 |
$3,229,134 |
Monthly Investing Results – Assuming 11% return
|
Monthly Contribution |
30 years of saving |
40 years of saving |
|
$100 |
$283,022 |
$867,895 |
|
$200 |
$566,045 |
$1,735,791 |
|
$300 |
$849,068 |
$2,603,687 |
|
$400 |
$1,132,090 |
$3,471,582 |
My To Get Started in less than 1 hour
Simple Way
STEP ONE: Don’t file your taxes yet. The good news: You can still make a “2007” contribution if you open a Roth IRA before you file your income tax return.
STEP TWO: Open an account TODAY. The sooner you start, the sooner you start the magic of compound interest.
Retirement Savings Goals
In case you are wondering how much you should save each year for retirement, your overall savings goal should be about 15% of your gross income (most of my clients are in the 10% – 20%), in the following order:
Friends, Laziness, and Boosting Returns
OK. You now have a vision for building significant wealth.
But what about your friends? Many of your friends probably don’t get it. Why? Because they haven’t seen that significant wealth is possible for the “average” person with an “average salary”. Share this article with them. I’ve found that it helps to have like-minded friends shooting for a hopeful future.
If you are feeling lazy – you better wake up! I have made it abundantly clear that 1 hour of your time will rock your world. You don’t have to do heavy analysis each month – set up this plan on autopilot and let it run. If you are so lazy that you can’t spend 1 hour on this, then, whew, life is not going to be easy in your later years.
If you are already saving some, you can turbo charge your results by using low-cost mutual funds that I recommend in this article. Using mutual funds that cost 1% less per year than the average mutual fund could boost your total nest egg by nearly 25% over a 30 year time span. Instead of $1,000,000, you could end up with another $250,000 for a total of $1,250,000.
Final Thoughts – Keep it Simple and Automatic
It’s amazing, but you can actually thrive and build wealth with a simple, “boring” diversified portfolio in your retirement accounts. The Roth IRA should be a serious part of most wealth building plans. Open your account today.
Be sure to join us tomorrow. I will be sharing some specific ways to find $1000 Dollars for college expenses.
Blessings,
Todd
Todd Doerr is personal finance coach. He helps his clients to rapidly get out of debt and to build serious wealth. He tells his clients, “It’s not always easy or pretty, but it always works.” You may reach him at todd_doerr@yahoo.com or at www.taxmakeover.com.
[Update]
1. See the two other articles Todd wrote:
2. Then check out his eBook, The 2008 Tax Makeover Guide

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